Learned helplessness, a concept closely related to animal psychology and behavior, occurs when a person is subject to the same aversive
experiences and/or outcomes which are unchanging or unavoidable for a period of time. This leads to inaction as the person will begin to believe that their
effort is futile; nothing they do can change their situation.
This behavioral pattern isn’t always reversible in nature. In human beings, however, there is reason to believe that it is very manageable and even
preventable.
According to Medical News Today, learned helplessness in people can present itself in a lot of different ways including: procrastination and
avoidance behaviors, passivity, lack of effort, and low motivation.While it is not a mental health condition, it can on occasion be a sign of a mental disorder
such as GAD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder..
Although there has not been a ton of research regarding the subject, it’s best to act on what experts do know so far, in order to be proactive and to
minimize the risk. What is known is this: Learned helplessness typically originates during childhood.
Being conscious of, and honestly assessing and reassessing the approach a parent takes when it comes to their children can make all the difference.
Overbearing and overly-involved parenting styles, in general, have been known to have largely negative effects. This is especially true in the development of
learned helplessness. Parenting this way can inhibit a child’s personal sense of agency. They begin to feel they don’t need to put forth any effort. Unreliable,
unresponsive, and rigid parenting also lends to this pattern of thinking as it bolsters feelings of helplessness and hopelessness.
Parents today are in dire need of change. Education on the social emotional as well as the physical needs of children prior to having them is a great
solution. Researching and reading up on different methods of parenting, discipline, and reward as well as their effects on children would largely reduce the risk
for many and allow for children to be genuinely successful.
Breaking the Cycle of Learned Helplessness
Lili English